How to use a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight is a discreet, portable and sturdy masturbation aid. This male sex toy was created and patented by Steve Shubin in 1998. They are made from real feel super skin, a soft life like material  that gives amazing sensations when penetrated. Their are Fleshlight Girls and Fleshjack Boys, which are moulded directly from porn stars orifices such as mouth, vagina and anus. Fleshlights are often called sex torches due to the plastic case that the soft sleeve is housed in. If you want to find out more about Fleshlights then take a look at our guide ‘What is a Fleshlight‘.

Fleshlights are fundamentally just male masturbators that are housed in a firm, plastic case. So using a Fleshlight is just like using any other male masturbator. Take a look at our guide on how to use a male masturbator to find out the best way to pleasure yourself with these sex toys. If you would like to buy a masturbator, but are not quite sure which is the best one, then take a look at our guide to the best male masturbators.

How to use a Fleshlight:

1. Apply lubricant

Before using your Fleshlight make sure you always apply lubricant to yourself, the orifice and the internal sleeves canal. We recommend using a lubricant like the Loving Joy Slide Water based Lubricant. When using a Fleshlight do not use oil or silicone based lubricant. These types of lubricants will damage the Fleshlights inner sleeve.

The amount of lubricant needed will depend on the type of Fleshlight you have. With the classic pink lady vagina you would need less lubricant than you would when masturbating with one of the Fleshlight Girls. This is because the pink lady has a smooth texture, whereas the Fleshlight Girls range usually feature a heavily textured sleeve. Using too much lubricant can reduce sensation, so start off with a little bit and then add more as and when you need to. Never use a Fleshlight or a male masturbator without lubricant as this can lead to friction burns or injury to your penis.

2. Get Comfortable

There are a few different ways in which you can use your Fleshlight, but it is always important to get comfortable before hand! A few of the ways you can use your fleshlight includes laying on your back, on your front, with the Fleshlight wedged in between or under a pillow.

Now once you have chosen the position that you want and your Fleshlight is lubricated start to penetrate it with your penis. Push your penis all the way in, and then pull your penis out. Recreate a thrusting motion, or move the Fleshlight up and down your penis like you would if you were masturbating with your hand. Keep moving the Fleshlight until you reach climax, and don’t worry about coming, as you can cum in your Fleshlight.

If the Fleshlight feels uncomfortable you may need to apply more lubricant to your penis or the Fleshlight.

3. Look After Your Fleshlight

Once you have finished, then make sure you clean your Fleshlight! Cleaning your Fleshlight and taking proper care of your sex torch will mean that it will last longer and won’t get damaged. For more information on cleaning your Fleshlight, take a look at our guide on ‘how to clean a Fleshlight‘.

If you have any more questions on ‘how to use a Fleshlight’ then feel free to contact us and one of out male sex toy experts will respond as soon as they can.